Now in paperback! Romantic relationships have the ability to infuse our lives with the magic of intimacy and connection. But for many of us, we find ourselves chasing unavailable love, or sublimating our needs in service to others.
If you find yourself struggling to let go after a relationship ends, or you keep hitting the same wall in dating and relationships with emotionally unavailable people, this is not a sign that you are broken. In Becoming the One, Sheleana Aiyana offers a roadmap for transforming your relationship patterns to end the cycle of self-abandonment and move into the light of self-discovery. You'll learn to:
- build a secure, loving relationship with yourself.
- connect with your inner child.
- challenge your core beliefs about love.
- set self-affirming boundaries.
- discover and celebrate your true desires.
- recognize red and green flags.
Sheleana's revolutionary lessons, based on wisdom from the traumas of her past and years of guiding women around the world in her acclaimed "Becoming the One" program of spiritual and therapeutic healing practices, teach you to embody the qualities you are seeking in others so that you can become "the one" for yourself. You'll learn how to trust your body, make peace with your past, and clear the path for healthy, conscious love - one that returns the authority to you to choose how to live and whom to love.
The desire for love is wired into the very fibers of our being, but before you can create rewarding bonds with others, first you must stand wholeheartedly in self-acceptance.